How to plan a home education week that survives contact with reality
Most planning advice assumes the week goes to plan. Home education weeks rarely do, and a plan that breaks the first time someone is ill is worse than no plan, because it adds guilt to a bad week.
Plan the week, not the days
Assigning work to specific days means a lost Tuesday breaks everything downstream. Assign it to the week instead: here is what we want to cover, here is roughly the order. Then a bad Tuesday moves work to Thursday rather than destroying the plan.
Four working days is a better target than five. The fifth day absorbs everything that slipped. In a good week it becomes a trip, a project, or a day off, all of which count.
Three tiers, so a bad week still counts
- The non-negotiable minimum. One or two things that happen on almost any day, however bad. Usually reading and something small in maths. Fifteen minutes total.
- The normal week. What you do on an ordinary day when everyone is functioning.
- The extras. Projects, trips, experiments, the things that need energy and a clear head.
On a hard week you drop to tier one without ceremony. The point is that tier one still counts as home education, because it is. A week of reading together during a flare-up or a crisis is not a failed week.
Write the minimum down before you need it. Deciding what counts as 'enough' during a bad week, while feeling guilty, produces a much harsher answer than deciding it calmly in advance.
Record as you go
Five minutes at the end of each day is worth more than two hours at the end of term, and produces a better record. Note what was actually done, not what you planned. The gap between the two is useful information.
Include the things that do not feel like school. Museum trips, documentaries, cooking, helping with a real repair, long conversations. In most jurisdictions these are legitimate educational provision, and they are frequently the parts a child remembers.
How Different Drums helps here
The planner is built for weekly planning rather than rigid timetabling, so slipped work moves without breaking anything. Tutor sessions, worksheets and curriculum progress record themselves, and you can add the everyday learning by hand in a line or two.
When you need to show someone what a term contained, the report pulls from the log rather than from your memory of it.
Common questions
How far ahead should I plan?
A term in outline, a week in detail. Detailed planning further out than a week is usually wasted, because children move at unpredictable speeds and interests shift.
What if we get badly behind?
Behind what? Unless you are working to an exam date, there is no external clock. If a topic took twice as long as expected, that is data about the topic or the child, not a deficit to make up.
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